My charms have no intension of harm or mischief

Reasoning is the tool of the brilliant to soothe the mind! For if you can find 100 reasons to love me, I can give you 100 reasons to hate me!

But what you feel for me is unique and unlike anyone else will feel for me. It can never be told or reasoned with. What you feel for me is all yours and only yours. It is not a choice that you made, for no feeling is! For our hearts know no reasons!

When you know what your feeling, what is the use in being stubborn? What is so wrong in giving and feeling? For my cajoles and wheedles have no intension of harm or mischief for me or anyone else for I am not that hedonistic!

"I am fucking President's daughter!"

Hi there, people who read my blog, it's me again! I have nothing to write about today but I do am thinking of you, right now! So anyway I will write something for you! Now don't you ever take it bad!

Do you remember the time when you heard the death of princess Diana? We were so caught in the news that we lost our daily routines! What was it that caught our interest? We just could not believe it and came with a load of questions! How? When? Where?

We are a bunch of curious creators, aren't we? To me that incident proved a lot more, that some people are born to excel and some to be normal. So those who are normal likes to talk about the life of those who excel! It is like people who don't have a life, talk about other people's life! Am I making sense here?

It is like how you will feel in a moment, how you will want to know more, get interested in me and the details when I say "I am fucking president's daughter!"

Feel it?

I am gonna spoil myself shamelessly!

I have been trying to catch my self motivation powers for some time, but all I manage to catch is my naps at odd hours. I guess my sweet motivation is hiding at the very top floor of a very expensive condo, it's going to be a hard ride casing it up the stairs but its always worth it!

They say be careful of what you wish for, for wishes may come true. Well, the trouble with my wishes is, I am not sure if it is what I really want or if I am ready for it! Looking at the past all I wished did came true but very few made me happy!!! I guess there is no choice but to give it a try and spoil myself shamelessly!

Easiest way to breakup!

First before we get to the breakup, let us see why we would want to break up. As far as I am concerned a stable and committed relationships are a pure connection between two or more souls. However, when one cheat, betray or abuse the other the purity of the relationship is lost and thus all has to suffer. How do I know? I did cheat!

Most of the time when this happens, the nature will no longer be on your side and it is better to break-up! But the choice is all yours, some might choose to suffer in the name of love or hope for the rare case when both wake up to a new enlightenment!!! The question you should ask is "Are we happy?"

Cheating and betrayal is understood easily, then comes abuse! Abuse comes in two forms, physical and emotional or psychological. Physical abuse is again easily understood, but the emotional abuse is the worst of all, as it can go unnoticed for months and if your dumb enough for years. The primary cause of abuse is insecurity!

It is the times when you feel yourself being drained out of energy just to sustain the relationship! When all you have are arguments with no peace of mind. It is the time when your partner start using treats! "If you go, I will die!" or "Your mine and no one can have you!" These emotional blackmails indicates it's time to leave!

When your sure it is time, the easiest way to breakup is, "just do it"!

I am in touch with my feminine side!

Call me whatever you want, but if I had to choose between sex and cuddling, I will choose cuddling. Why? No reason, I just like to play hide and seek under the cover with my squeezes.

I really do understand when some don't get the point, but to that I will say I am not desperate and I am in touch with my feminine side too!

I now believe in listening!

A good friend once paused the question, why do you think we have two ears and one mouth? I was not in the mood to play smarty! So I said "how the hell do I know, I have to ask God!" He smiled and said, to listen twice as much as you talk!

Well, it was profound enough to have an impact on me. It took some doing to cultivate the habit, to smile, nod and be surprised at what I am hearing without interrupting. However, strange as it may sound, I still go blank when someone cries or get too emotional. Other than that I now believe in listening!

I love and respect my more than imperfect family

It is said blood is thicker than water, a very old saying... I don't question the wisdom, wit or beauty of this, but this can be a reason for unavoidable fights. A reason for constant knocks, especially with clashes in the natural propensity. But the clanship can survive if we respect the old saying.

I don't like much to prattle and it would be intolerable to spend hours chatting with a spoiled brat and get confound in their habitual civilities. However, I can't either live with the hi-and-bye so I have come to realize, the quarreling is a part of the family, not a bit of it. For I love and respect my more than imperfect family.

I hate politics for I prefer singleton!

Politics is everywhere, at home, office, government, at macro level within countries! So what is this politics? Most will define it as an art or science of governing! In a bunch of people, there is always a need to govern! Why? Because it causes conflicts of interest! My needs and wants overlaps with your needs and wants!

The question is, what is really winning? Is it getting what you want and need? If that is the case then in politics you have no people but only interests! It depends on what interest you and others and the energy to sustain it. Second politics have no emotions, only ideas! If you can sell your ideas and if people are willing to buy it, you can go a long way.

As for me, I hate politics and I prefer singleton, from where I can watch the game!

Changing the light bulb on your own is better!

I remember the time when I paid to do my laundry and to clean up my apartment! Not because I can't, just to have a hang of it as I thought I had no time for it. First thing I told her was, "do it only if you enjoy doing it!" Every now and then she used to ask me, "is my work to your satisfaction". In fact she did a good job, perhaps because she enjoyed it. However, after couple of months she got a bit sloppy and that was the end of story.

I don't want to get to the bottom of why things turned out that way. Now I believe, when living alone finding time to do your own clean up and laundry is much better! For paying someone to change a light bulb is a big deal. I rather find time to change the light bulb on my own!

I did not mean to hurt you!

It is said honesty is the best policy! At the same light, we all want to know the truth so badly. Is telling the truth the right thing to do? In all occasions? Well, I have learn my lessons! Some things in life are better off not knowing! As long as we are happy, what does the truth matter? Let the bygones be bygones!

In such cases, it is always better to stay silent! What I don't say can never be a lie! Well, I tried to use the mute button as much as I can, but I just could not shut up at times and end up with those hurtful words! What is said is said, I can never take them back! But I guess I can apologize.

So if I have ever hurt anyone anywhere in this world, I apologize, it wasn't my intension!

I love my work more than my girls!

As far as I can remember, I am workaholic! People who know me, know this. The pleasure that I drive after the successful completion of a project is beyond expression. After a little celebration and a little self reward, it is time for another! One project after another is like a never ending source of pleasure upon pleasure.

Nothing in this life has top the list. This does not leave much time for loved ones. But just because I have no time for them, it does not mean I do not care. I have feelings and I do care. However I love my work more than my girls!

Embrace the present moment!

I talk to lot of people, I flirt on a daily basis! Flirting is a healthy habit. Some I ask out for some fun, some I avoid! I avoid the gold diggers and girls with rules, I know the game, and it won't work on me!

Lets love by doing, not by wanting...

What is so wrong with just being friends? Even being friends with benefits! We all have needs, to which we are slaves at given moments!

What is so wrong with asking someone out? Even an interesting stranger! We all are here to get to know one another.

Let us kill every sadness and madness with a joke! What is the fun in suffering?

The past and the future are like illusions, just memories and ideas! What is real is the present moment, so lets embrace it!

The idea of dating sucks!

I have come to accept the fact that the idea of dating sucks! Well, truth be told in a dating environment we try to impress the other into fall. It is only one picture, with a lot of hidden baggage. The prince charming dinner nights and Cinderella is a delusion. Simple brain washing.

I rather prefer to meet someone somewhere at work or a meeting or on the road or out when having fun. If anything is to happen, let it happen...

In order to live happily together we have to come to love the imperfections in our partners, for no one is perfect...

Scare off the guy who calls you at 1 in the morning!

I am feeling light in my head, the time to work alone with the only smoke of the day. Guess what, I am contemplating! So girls, you wanna learn how to scare off the guy who calls you at 1 in the morning? Here is what works on me.

If your single, or have the freedom and enjoying it, this will work to find out, (a) a guy who calls for sex, (b) a guy who is a good friend (c) a guy good for a relationship.

 

First of all someone who call late night have an intension, any of the above! So be patient and friendly! It is the best opportunity to dumb all your garbage on a stranger free of charge. Start talking about all the sob things that happened to you lately. Those emotional stories that have been troubling you to stay up on the bed. No need to mention any names, just talk about the experiences. "You know, this guy I have met, we had the best sex in my life and it turned out that he was married! What shall I do?" And keep going, on and on. If he is in for sex, after a couple of minutes it will scare him off. If he keeps on listening for days, he is a good place to dumb all garbage in your life. However, if you want to sustain it, never get physical. On the other hand, if he starts sharing his emotions in return, you have got some relationship possibilities. That is if you want to.

 

For those of you who are married and in a stable relationship, just communicate so! It is better to turn off your phone and sleep early and never try this unless you want to complicate things. Most guys will never understand, unless he is me!

 

Come on, have a sense of humor!

As for me, I have no time for sob stories and I have little tolerance for drama. When I am dating, let me rephrase, when I am having fun, I want it to be fun. Apart, I have a blog!