I have come to know that love is an emotional attachment related with love making, care taking and in the long-run offspring. In most cases this emotional attachment do have compromises. This is the main reason why it does not last for a life time.
As far as I know when it comes to love there are three places where you can stand. First you can be co-depended, practically sucking on emotional energy from one another or most of the time one directional where the weaker feeds on the stronger until it gets a hell of a bored house. Second, you can be independent, this is where you stay single and mess around. This is advised only for the strong at heart with a sense of purpose. Third is interdependent, where people have their own individual life with self-interest, separate circle of friends and family, at the same time enjoying a life together with their lover, with separate experiences and stories to share...
So what kind of a lover are you?
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the second one :P ...... for now
some where between second and third?
2.5?manje
True, Emotional attachments do have compromises, but true love is best seen as a devotion and willingness to accept those compromises in order to make it last a lifetime.
In a relationship, I'd prefer the third. But for now, I'm happy at second...:)
hmmm nice theory. come to think of it, since when did you get hit by cupid? I'm guessing... your "friend"? ;)
everyone, chill-out! ;)
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