Two questions to ask yourself about your boyfriend!

Girls, this may sound weired, but believe me on my age old experience. :) This two questions can make or break your relationship for an ever ending whatever you want. Don't get me here? Well, the most difficult part is not asking these two questions but rather the answers and more importantly what you want the answers to be! I stress the word 'you' here! So if you have followed this far into this blog post I am sure you must be really curious to know what those two questions are? Well, they are, is your boyfriend spiritual? And is your boyfriend creative? Simple! Note as I have mentioned before, first and foremost you have to find the type you prefer, some may like spiritual and some may not like it, that is ok. By the way by spiritual I don't mean religious! At the same time some may like creativity while for others it may be a nuisance. So know what you like first and next ask the two questions to yourself. In reality what only matters is your perceptions of who your boy friend is, not what others think or he think. Wish you all an enlightening morning with these two questions to ask yourself about your boy friend.

All that is important is doing the right thing!

Every dream, every big dream pass through three stages. Just like a farmer who plant a seed expecting the fruit of the labor. First it is the wanting of the fruit. Next planting the seeds, watering, attention to details and taking care. Last watch them grow slowly and steadily until it is time to pick the fruit. How one want to satisfy beyond this is both objective and subjective, but every dream has to pass through these three stages.

In the real life first comes the vision, the imagination and the idea. Than comes the plans to realize the dream to a realistic way forward based on set goals. Next it is the time to act and here one needs a lot of patience. Patience does not mean doing nothing, but more of like playing along with the nature.

One such dream is in motion, something dear to my heart, important and personal. Call me a dreamer, a loner, crazy or creative or even spiritual, suit yourself for I don't care. Listening to my inner voice I know the dream is awakeing from it's slumber. Yes, I dare to dream, for I dream with my eyes open. At times I feel the "loneliness", but all that is important is doing the right thing.

This shall pass too, for I am only human.

Feeling a lot of frustrations, but I have no reason to! Everything is moving as planned, everything is worth saying great, but why this annoying feeling! What is that I am missing? I am trying hard not to channel this frustration on others, for one day I might have to say sorry...

I know I am not ready to present her the hot bath tub... I can get things done easily by manipulation or deceit, but history have proved that the gain is not worth it, and I have never enjoyed anything unless it was mutually desired...

This is more like time to relax, for a while. There is nothing more to do, lists and promises are boring. This shall pass too, for I am only human.